The Chester Club

Hope everyone remember the episode where one of Carries boyfriend's shock’s Miranda with the ugly truth that the guy she dated will probably will never call her again, and he was mostly right. I have a colleague at work with who I will run into every time I am dating someone, he is tremendously honest and not hold his tongue at all. So telling you this, I came   shameless to show him a convo with a guy I texted on tinder, cause’ I am really into him, he add me on facebook, chat a little bit and later I chicken out and stop the convo, (I know, I am dumb but I don’t know how to date anymore). So I was trying to figure it out if I should text him back, he read the conversation and he told me , -you are to fucking desperate-, you shouldn’t go after him, you should wait that he comes back to you, that completely shocked me, what he would be saying this? So in disbelief I asked exactly what did I do. He’s reply:   is only one line, but you give him all your c...

Looks like what happens with women body is public opinion, not having kids as a choice of living have been coming to terms, since some decades ago and some people are embracing it and some other are outraged, because according to science, society and nature the body is created for reproduction. Is a right assumption I think for any perspective, but we have evolved to the point of not having control of birth to the point to chose when, with who, how many, single or married? so now the big question it is, Do I may want to have kids one day? I like kids don´t get my wrong but I don´t die over them, I spend time with my nephews, what so ever I get tired of them and put my distance, my mind goes wild with the anxiety to deal with tantrums, thinking to waking up early to feed someone get out my nerves and to even think to left something aside to cover the needs of someone like a kid drives me insane, mostly scared but insane also. My mind doesn´t comprehend when I flip so bad to the i...

Within the past few years I have had in my toughs that if you are meant to be with someone the ¨things¨ easily goes by, no weird stages or mixed messages, you are the in the place where you need to be. As a 27 years old single woman, I am starting to doubt myself, maybe love is a little bit hard now, and if you want to love someone who is worthed you should fight for it. I come and go about this mixed feeling about relationships all day, I haven´t been dating to much this past year, competition is fierce out there, I am not a teenager anymore and society and boys make me feel that I am quite old yet, my love field drops to guys past 35 years, first because I consider guys my age pretty dumb or because they have their eyes in someone else. Also reviewing different opinions from people around my social circle make me pin point something very shocking, most of the people we are single in this age or even older, we are pretty fucked up, we have been in hard relationships, our trust...