Episode 2: Love after Love

Love after Love

Have you ever wonder how much you put into a relationship and what’s left for you afterwards??

I bet you do, but you really not summarize all that you did, how much did you invest, how much you changed someone life and…what about you??

Did you plan amazing romantic dinners in the sunset, prepare the most amazing pasta, bought the sexiest lingerie ever, put the most shinny make up on, fit you the prettiest clothes, made squats to have a perfect bum, did the most new haircut to look amazing and later what?? What happened when love end?

I think what we don’t understand that love is not over, it should grow more even, you have yourself for the first time in a while, and someone you can carefully and totally love all day, who knows better what you like and how you feel, you don’t need nobody else to make it true.

Of course it takes a time to comprehend what I’m talking about, even if you ended or not the relationship, women’s end up shrieking to pieces and put the puzzle on place sometimes take quite a while.

I have seen it on my friends and of course myself, you are ready to mingle and have fun, so again you are all pretty dressed up, spend money on drinks and going outs, whatever but have you notice that not always is about you, is to look good to call the attention of someone else and that’s not what I meant, you spend money going out because you want to meet up someone, again should't be like  that, is because you wanna do it, to have a nice night.

You should really take time to love someone and that someone is you, but seriously, prepare the most amazing dinners, eat a damn pizza by yourself, buy a fancy whine or a nice beer put some nice music and enjoy it, do exercise but not thinking you want to look hot, do it because you want to be healthy and strong, put the prettiest clothes on it to feel amazing, take pictures to save memory’s no to cause envy of the great time you’re having it.

Do what you like and invest in yourself a little more, but with love, smile in the mirror and be thankful to be the person you are seeing.

Think in all the amazing things you can do by yourself now, take some time to make a trip by yourself, no one knows you so no one bothers you, isn't sound relaxing??

At the end we all want to find love again, but remember that when you enjoy life and be happy you surround yourself with people like that, it would be amazing to have and upgrade of good vibes.

If you are a 10, you'll be with 10's 

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